Break ups. I don't understand why people can break up with their lover, regret and then try to get their lover back. it's like you split out the saliva and you want to lick it back. everybody says that everyone deserves a second chance. yes it's true. sometimes we need that second chance to make things right, but have you ever thought that the second chance were given when one party doesn't want to break up, and is trying her very best to salvage the relationship? Why didn't you appreciate the person when you both were together? Why only regret after deciding to break up. Look it from that person's point of view, people. She/he'd feel like a toy. a used toy. when you first got the toy, you'd play with it often, get sick of it, abandoned it one side, missed it then take it out to play with it again. The guilt will be with you.